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Very Simple 13/2/2004
Guys know when a chick is into them, and when the chick is
into them 'no' usually means 'yes',
and in the case when she actually means 'no', just
wait for some sudden use of painful physical violence from
her, and that'll be the real sign, and girls dont be
bashful about hitting a dude as hard as you want if he's
not getting the idea
0 Commentaires, 4 Consultations,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score |
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How it should be done 12/2/2004
I don't know why it is so hard for people to write a note
and say "no thanks". Although I have met a lot
of very nice people on here, there a quite a number of unresponded
emails. I realize the women get a huge number of replies
from men but it isn't difficult to say Thanks but no
thanks in a return note. I try to make a point of responding
to people whether it is a yes or a no.
0 Commentaires, 1 Consultations,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score |
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why do women make such a big deal about casual sex?? 11/2/2004
Why do women make such a big deal about sex?? Most studies
have shown that they even enjoy sex much more than men yet
most of them dont want to just have casual sex and have all
the fun they can. i wonder why
0 Commentaires, 9 Consultations,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score |
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men are at a disadvantage here (woman's perspective) 6/2/2004
after being on XNX Match and meet sexy singles online for just one month, i can see that men are
at a great disadvantage...the number of women (at least
women who are not trying to redirect you to a pay site) must
be outnumbered by the men by a huge ratio. i think women that
appear to be "real" from their profiles probably
get an enormous amount of mail...i know i do. for me, part
of the reason for being a member here is ...
0 Commentaires, 35 Consultations,
57 Votes
,8.43 Score |
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Just Say No Thanks 31/1/2004
I have had a few women, and couples respond to my ad on XNX Match and meet sexy singles online.
I always, as most men do, respond almost immediatly. Only
to NOT get any furthur e-mails or reply's. What is with
that? If you are just players, why not just sit back and masterbate
to the pics or something rather than giving someone a possible
hope of hooking up and then just let them hang, in wonderment
if the reply's got ...
0 Commentaires, 14 Consultations,
17 Votes
,6.38 Score |
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What's wrong with just telling a person " No Thanks!" 31/1/2004
I get so tired of writing to people on here, only to never
get a response back. I'm a big girl, so I realise that
not everyone I'm interested in is going to be interested
in me, but can't you at least have the common couteousy
to say, "no thaks!?" At least then, I'm
not left wondering if your lack of response may have been
due to a glich in this site ( it does happen, you know!), and
you ...
0 Commentaires, 3 Consultations,
20 Votes
,6.95 Score |
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Let's Examine All Sides of This Issue 24/1/2004
I understand the frustration about not getting replies
to email from all the articles, primarily from men or couples.
However, there is honestly another side to the issue. Many
of us females receive numerous emails per day, and cannot
possibly reply to all of them. As standard members, we only
get so many replies per day, also. Not to mention that there
are a number of men who have a ...
8 Commentaires, 505 Consultations,
45 Votes
,7.98 Score |
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A womans choice 21/1/2004
On behalf of the "decent" men and yes ladies
most are I would like to say in my life I have never slept with
a woman I felt would regret it later. Saying no never came
into it, a man knows if he is forcing the issue. If a woman
will regret it then even if she consents its a lousy thing
to do.
0 Commentaires, 11 Consultations,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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Older couples, with unattractive men 18/1/2004
Hey there....
I'm just wondering if everyone else has trouble finding
couples in which both people are attractive. My boyfriend
and I are both attractive and would like to find the same.
We are both young, but are open to older couples. The problem
is, that the females in the couples are usually fine, but
the males are not. It is the main reason we end up not going
ahead with most of the ...
0 Commentaires, 27 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Common Courtesy 17/1/2004
If someone takes the time and shows the interest in you to
send you an email or a network invitation, it is only 'common
courtesy' to reply. A yes, a no thank you, a response
of any kind is fine, so long as it is a polite response. Unfortunately,
common courtesy seems to be quite uncommon these days.
ps. Please note that this does not apply to emails or invites
from people who can not seem ...
0 Commentaires, 22 Consultations,
1 Votes
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Saying no thanks isn't always easy. 16/1/2004
I don't think a lot of women are being snobbish. It seems
so rude to say no thanks, not interested. It would seem that
if a woman doesn't reply, that is her answer. Sometimes,
when I have replied in such a way, men will get angry, so I
think it depends on the man and there is no way of knowing
which type he is.
0 Commentaires, 90 Consultations,
10 Votes
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i'll pass 15/1/2004
i went to a party, one time, i met a really hot guy.We chatted
for some time, and one thing led to another.Oh, yea and
the party so happened to be at his place.Well, there we
were in his room have awesome sex, when the door opened
, and there stood a big guy with his cock hanging out.the
guy i was in bed with went on to tell me he shares the best things
with his bestfriend.well i was turned ...
0 Commentaires, 33 Consultations,
108 Votes
,7.28 Score |
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its webcams too 12/1/2004
re the article on the lady who says that men leave there cell
phones numbers on emails, well it also happens if they
know that you have a web cam here in the uk.many times my msn
has flashed to say that a contact wants to speak to me and
when i click on to them they always invite themselfs to view
my webcam.to me this is damm right rude and pushy you should
never invite yourself to view a ...
0 Commentaires, 26 Consultations,
53 Votes
,6.29 Score |
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A Simple "No Thank You" Will Do! 8/1/2004
We don't know how other people feel about this but,
the one thing that agravates the hell out of both of us are
the countless number of couples and single women especially
who don't answer their mail. If you have a profile or
personal ad posted seeking the company of others, the polite
thing to do is respond to mail you get in response to your
profile or ad.
<br>
We get a lot ...
0 Commentaires, 120 Consultations,
67 Votes
,8.90 Score |
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Do unto others as you would have them do unto you?? 6/1/2004
OK...having read the many articles relative to common
courtesy, in saying "no thank you", I have to
add the above title.
<br>
It is called the "Golden Rule." And it works!
Most the time.
<br>
Having said that, I do agree with the people who have had
the negative experience of tying to be polite, only having
the recipient come back to argue the point, or worse, use ...
0 Commentaires, 60 Consultations,
27 Votes
,7.45 Score |
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Politeness both ways 3/1/2004
I have chatting with several people on XNX Match and meet sexy singles online. Most are very
nice. Some, however, are really nasty once they find out
you aren't exactly what they want.
<br>
My profile clearly states that I am married and looking
for a discrete affair and I am up front with anyone with whom
I chat. But more then once, a woman has decided to berate
me for it. To lecture me on immorality seems odd, ...
0 Commentaires, 21 Consultations,
24 Votes
,7.56 Score |
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Know how to say No NICELY 2/1/2004
Hi all. Maybe I'm just a softie at heart, but I have a
really hard time saying "no" to requests I get.
A lot of people just ignore requests they don't like.
Or they string people along, thinking they are being "nice".
<br>
The best thing, absolutely the nicest thing you can do,
is to tell people the truth. We are all adults here. We know
that all of us have different wants, needs ...
0 Commentaires, 5 Consultations,
45 Votes
,8.34 Score |
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Please Be Honest 2/1/2004
I have taken out three people I met on XNX Match and meet sexy singles online. After each date
all three said they would like to go out again. Two of them
ask me out again, I ask the other. Then the same responce,
nothing. Why cant you just be honest and say "No Thank
You". The pain of being ask out and stood up is worse
than being told no thank you.
2 Commentaires, 49 Consultations,
22 Votes
,7.21 Score |
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Reply to No Manners 30/12/2003
I agree that not to respond to an email when someone has made
the effort to write one is rude, I don't care if you are
a person who gets 100 emails a day, or 2 emails. I do understand
that if that person doesn't match your criteria, then
fine, maybe a response is not justified, but when the person
actually does match your profile, and you still don't
respond, that is just being lazy. The ...
0 Commentaires, 3 Consultations,
8 Votes
,6.03 Score |
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Lack of honesty 29/12/2003
This is just a friendly bit of advice to all the women and
couples who are barraged on here by single men -- Please
be upfront --- Saying no is better than no reply.
0 Commentaires, 12 Consultations,
18 Votes
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Re: Rude People 29/12/2003
I understand what your saying. I made it pretty clear in
my profile that I'm a virgin and all the guys who read
it automaticly assume that i'm looking to lose it.
I've been known to not respond to some messages sent
to me too. With a site like this, a lot of guys on here just
assume that the women on here also want just sex and even
more than that. I feel if you tell a guy "No Thanks" ...
2 Commentaires, 67 Consultations,
17 Votes
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Replying in a timely manner 26/12/2003
Is it necessary to reply the same day when we receive an email?
Sometimes we dont check our email for a few days, and some
couples get annoyed when we dont respond right away. Is
there any written rules on this? Probably not
0 Commentaires, 11 Consultations,
43 Votes
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Why do some swingers feel like being assholes? 25/12/2003
Why can some swingers not just say no thank you or some other
responce...heck sitting around trying to see if someone
might be interested...it would be much nicer had the couple
just said no..and the worst thing I want to say about is single
men...I am sorry, but damn it it is nothing personnal...no
thanks means just that...the wife aand I can find a single
stud anytime of the day or night ...
0 Commentaires, 3 Consultations,
52 Votes
,6.47 Score |
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how do I say no 25/12/2003
I keep running into the problem of saying no to girls. I had
girlfriends that I really liked and wanted more than sex
but that's all they wanted and I couldn't find
myself saying no to them. What are good ways for me to do that?
0 Commentaires, 1 Consultations,
31 Votes
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MOMMA DIDN'T TEACH YOU MANNERS? 23/12/2003
I've chatted with both men and women on this site (I'm
a female) and I must say, there are some extremely rude people
here. Just because this is a site focused on sexual relations
does not give one the license to be rude. Of course there
are those who just don't "get it", (no need
for the list). I am refering to the basic, "Thank you,
Good-nite, Bye, etc...
In CyberSex we are still ...
0 Commentaires, 6 Consultations,
41 Votes
,7.55 Score |
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respect 15/12/2003
Please guys, read profiles first. Those women who are not
just out for sex don't want horney emails before they
get to know you!
0 Commentaires, 15 Consultations,
56 Votes
,8.58 Score |
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Why is it 11/12/2003
Why is it that some people can not take no for an answer. After
all aren't we all adults here? I come across this all
the time. Call me picky if you want to but, this is a free country
and we all have the choice of who we want to be with. It just
irks me when someone writes to me and I very nicely tell them
I don't feel there is any spark or chemistry and many
times I have gotten very nasty ...
0 Commentaires, 21 Consultations,
45 Votes
,8.27 Score |
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Try to be considerate 9/12/2003
I have attempted some contacts on XNX Match and meet sexy singles online but only a couple have
replied. I realize that the ladies here probably get more
email than most of the guys and it is hard to answer all of
them but would it hurt you ladies to try to at least send a
real message (not auto-reply) response even if you aren't
interested? I'ld like to think I'm considerate
and not crude in my contacts, it would be nice to ...
0 Commentaires, 1 Consultations,
14 Votes
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how to tell a woman no thanks 28/11/2003
If you meet a woman and find out it is'ent there.
Just be a gentalman and finish the date and take her back
to her car or home, and tell her thank you for the date but
I just don't think it was there what we are both looking
for but i did have a good time and hope we still can chat and
be friends, i don't want you to think it's you it's
just i don't feel that spark. do you know what i'm ...
0 Commentaires, 5 Consultations,
35 Votes
,6.41 Score |
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Anyone else have problems saying "No" when presented w/fine opportunities? 23/11/2003
I mean, when a woman you KNOW is bad for you wants you and she
is really fine....does anyone else have a problem saying
"no" when you know you should?
0 Commentaires, 4 Consultations,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score |